Almost
boyfriend!
Does the
question regarding your relationship status often confuse you? Do you have the
guy who is very much like an ideal boyfriend? The only thing is that you both
find it way too main stream when it comes to tagging your relationship as
committed to each other? Or is it that you are more than happy about this
naming of the relationship? In fact you have even secretly named your kids!
So, what’s
the matter? He has a problem with naming it. Umm I get you! You hang out
together; you spend a lot of time talking to each other. You text each other,
discuss everything with each other. He makes it a point to keep you away from
your male friends! He claims to be your boyfriend at times when you have a lot
of male attention at the party!
The moment
his friends teasingly ask, “So are you guys dating?” he brushes it of saying,
“Oh no! Not at all. We are just friends.” You nod and force a smile and kind of
brush the issue off.
Your male
friends think this guy is your boyfriend because you have introduced him as
your guy and he loves all the jealous looks from your male friends.
At times of
your success, he is with you. He says, “I am proud of you girl.” He is with you
in your ups and downs like a good boyfriend should. Your family knows him and
they wouldn’t be surprised if one day you announce to them that you guys are
dating each other because you speak a lot about him to them.
On the other
hand, you know nothing about his family. He hates the family topics. So, you
have always feared talking about marriage. You have tried your best to approach
him in all the indirect ways but it’s of no use. He has got reasons. “I am not
yet settled.” if he is then he wishes to earn more! Yes, as if I am asking you
to marry me right now. “I don’t believe in relationships.” Oh really? Why are
you on my bed right now? “I have had enough of loving and have got betrayed.”
Asshole, then what is it with me? “I am just not ok with the whole formal
naming of the relationship. We both know it.” Yes we both and all my hot male
friends. It’s time for you to announce the same to your female friends! “We
shouldn’t be rushing with this. We will end up in fights.” Oh is it? Why the
hell were you rushing in planning what condoms you need to use?
The list of
excuses goes on. You have fought and patched up several times!
So, what’s
your relationship status? You are basically stuck with an “Almost boyfriend.”
Hold your hearts ladies. Take a deep breath and relax. Guess what? This
relationship status will never change. He will always remain your almost boyfriend.
You have got no great rights on him as the result you will never be able to
question him about that sexy female sticking her cheek on to his on every other
picture of his. You wonder, why am I not allowed to do that? How is it ok for
her to pose like that and your pictures of your togetherness remains like a big
secret?
Ladies, you
deserve the best! There are men out there with whom you have shared all these
problems with. Just wonder why on earth would he be simply listening to the
repeat telecast of the troubles your almost boyfriend has landed you in? Maybe
he likes you.
There are
good guys too. The sweet ones, who end up in the friendzone for no fault of
theirs. Stop falling prey to the wrong guys! You deserve the best. My sincere
request to all the ladies out there. Please waste no other moment even thinking
and narrating about the almost boyfriends. They don’t deserve it. Hence I am
doing that on the behalf of all the ladies who have gone through this. Yes and
one more thing, I don’t wish to hear you repeat it again. Neither the mistake
nor the stories. :P
"Please waste no other moment even thinking and narrating about the almost boyfriends. They don’t deserve it. I don’t wish to hear you repeat it again. Neither the mistake nor the stories." TRULY! I AGREE, Arpita :) ;)
ReplyDeleteThank you Aayesha! I hear so many girls whining about such almost boyfriends and friend zoning the good guys! So an attempt to make them aware of the reality!
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