8 first date tips for men
The first date always makes us jump with excitement as well
as get us a little panicky. It is a “Make it or break it” kind of a situation.
Have you men ever been in a situation where in you have a big time crush on
this beautiful girl who knocks your dreams almost every night! She finally
agrees to go out on a date with you. As we have all heard, “First impression is
the last impression!” It stands true at least in the first date. Creating a
good impression on your girl on the first date is very important.
1. Offer to pick her up.
Yes you read it right. Be
courteous enough to offer to pick her up from her place. You will surely score
plus 10 points for the perfect beginning. It builds in a very warm and secure
feeling as she need not worry about the journey alone, in case you guys have
decided to meet up in a pretty far place. She would definitely like to dress to
impress you. The very next thought that is very likely to cross her mind would
be, “how do I go alone wearing this dress?” In a country which lacks women
safety, it is the best thing to offer to pick her up as well as drop her back!
2. Shower a genuine compliment.
As soon as you both meet, it is
very obvious on her part to subconsciously want to get complimented. After all
she has spent an hour to get ready! She has been on diet right from the time
you have asked her out on a date with you. She has dived in her wardrobe and
has tossed too many dresses and has surely said, “I have got nothing to wear!”
In case you have already created a good impression on her, there is a huge
possibility that the dress she is wearing is a new one! Compliment her but
don’t overdo it. You don’t want to sound cheesy. Do you? ;)
3. Plan it well
I asked him, “So where are we going?” with a
blank look on his face, he replies “Umm.. I don’t know. You say!” A planned date saves
the couple from the awkward silences. Having a blueprint of your evening would
be so nice! We girls love it when the man is confident enough and knows about
the rest of the evening.
4. Keep you cell phone away
We know you have the latest cell phone in
the town. It is also not necessary to keep updating about our date to your
curious friends. It is always better to keep your cell away and pay attention
to your girl. You can do all the chatting later. Nothing pisses off more than
the guy who is engrossed in his cell phone. Don’t call us doubtful. It simply
sends us a “He is double dating!” message. Look in to her eyes while you talk
but avoid staring. :P
5. Avoid the long conversation with others
It is obvious that you will end up
meeting your friends or the known people where ever you go. It’s understandable
if you talk to them for a while but it gets really awkward if you start a
conversation which further leads to, “Ok so how is your car? Let’s plan a
holiday. I think we should call Mr. XYZ too” and the conversation go on.
6. Don’t disappear!
The decked up beauty of yours would
find it very annoying if you just whisper, “I’ll be right back” and disappear
for more than 15 minutes leaving her in the restaurant starring at the uncles
and the waiters! Tell her the reason before excusing yourself and return soon.
7. Keep few topics ready
A good conversationalist is a major turn on.
Someone who can smoothly carry on the conversation can put the girl at ease.
Keep few topics ready in mind. Try discussing about the interesting things you
both have had a long chat on. Tell her something interesting about you but also
focus on what she has to say. Be a good listener and carry on the conversation
along with the required pauses.
8. Call/ message her
You drop her back. The day seems
good for both of you. You might have already made a good impression on her by
now. Please don’t ruin it with sudden disappearing coward act! It’s a very
natural instinct of women to assume and worry. Make a call after the first date
and let her know if you liked spending your time with you. Give away the hints
to her if you plan to meet her again.
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