5 EXCUSES WOMEN USE TO TURN DOWN THE PROPOSALS
Crushing on the opposite gender has been there since the times of Adam and Eve. Well, they didn't have a choice though. The good thing is, you have a choice as the saying goes, “There are many fishes in the ocean!”
With the advent in today’s hook up culture, we often find people whom we don’t like to the extent that we would step up in a relationship with but we would surely like to carry on an OKish kind of a conversation.
1.     You are like my friend.
This is the overly used excuse used by people all around the globe. It is easy and doesn't sound rude too. In short, Honey you are friend zoned! If at all they would have had more than that, they would have definitely told you and would have not left you wondering if they like you back the same way! It was nice crushing on him/her, well but that person doesn't feel that way about you. Is it the end of the world? Hell No! Move on instead of stopping the universe from letting you meet the right one. If it’s really so difficult to remain friends, say it aloud and cut the crap instead of acting psycho bad guy or the psycho ex. At the first place you are not even his/her ex. Move on buddy!
2.     You are like my brother
2 minutes of silence for all the recent Romeo turned Rakhi brothers! You might have probably spent your pocket money in recharging her phone; you might be the one who has listened to all the ex-boyfriend tales and still wish to love her. Well, sometimes it doesn't click. Life would have being so much fun if the one we loved, loved us back! Not everyone is so lucky. You have to wait for the right one. Patience is the key and yes! Stop spending on her. Stop being her punching bag. Move on, be the good brother and stop letting her date that moron who often makes her cry. <Wink>
3.     I like someone else
“So, you were simply giving me all the wrong signs?” is what your mind screams at him/her. Well, to be logical when you like the person, you simply like the person. You might have taken the cues wrong. Maybe it was just the friendly touch or maybe when they said “Wow! You are awesome! I love you!” it simply meant in a friendly way. Yes, that hurts but then it’s ok. You too should start exploring the world around you! Grab your favourite food and hog. You will be fine!
4.     I am not ready for it
Stop waiting for them! If they are not ready today, they will never be ready anytime ever! They just like you so much; they have many options, just busy to get attached to anyone, still waiting for the right one. If in case they show signs of physical intimacy, they are probably interested in the no strings attached stuff. Well, if you really want to be in a relationship then this is the wrong person for you! Move on.
5.     I am in love
“Can’t you drop the cues before?”
You know what? Say it aloud when you don’t like the person instead of letting them have all the wrong cues. Few genuine people would be left hurt. In case of the annoying others, you will have to still make use of all these above excuses. Especially the, “I have a boyfriend” as he would respect the other man more than your choice to choose the right one for you!
 So, say it aloud!


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