5 EXCUSES WOMEN USE TO TURN DOWN THE
PROPOSALS
Crushing on the opposite gender has been there since the
times of Adam and Eve. Well, they didn't have a choice though. The good thing
is, you have a choice as the saying goes, “There are many fishes in the ocean!”
With the advent in today’s hook up culture, we often find
people whom we don’t like to the extent that we would step up in a relationship
with but we would surely like to carry on an OKish kind of a conversation.
1.
You are like my friend.
This is the overly used excuse used by people all around the
globe. It is easy and doesn't sound rude too. In short, Honey you are friend
zoned! If at all they would have had more than that, they would have definitely
told you and would have not left you wondering if they like you back the same
way! It was nice crushing on him/her, well but that person doesn't feel that
way about you. Is it the end of the world? Hell No! Move on instead of stopping
the universe from letting you meet the right one. If it’s really so difficult
to remain friends, say it aloud and cut the crap instead of acting psycho bad
guy or the psycho ex. At the first place you are not even his/her ex. Move on
buddy!
2.
You are like my brother
2 minutes of silence for all the
recent Romeo turned Rakhi brothers! You might have probably spent your pocket
money in recharging her phone; you might be the one who has listened to all the
ex-boyfriend tales and still wish to love her. Well, sometimes it doesn't
click. Life would have being so much fun if the one we loved, loved us back!
Not everyone is so lucky. You have to wait for the right one. Patience is the
key and yes! Stop spending on her. Stop being her punching bag. Move on, be the
good brother and stop letting her date that moron who often makes her cry. <Wink>
3.
I like someone else
“So, you were simply giving me all
the wrong signs?” is what your mind screams at him/her. Well, to be logical
when you like the person, you simply like the person. You might have taken the
cues wrong. Maybe it was just the friendly touch or maybe when they said “Wow!
You are awesome! I love you!” it simply meant in a friendly way. Yes, that
hurts but then it’s ok. You too should start exploring the world around you!
Grab your favourite food and hog. You will be fine!
4.
I am not ready for it
Stop waiting for them! If they are
not ready today, they will never be ready anytime ever! They just like you so much;
they have many options, just busy to get attached to anyone, still waiting for
the right one. If in case they show signs of physical intimacy, they are
probably interested in the no strings attached stuff. Well, if you really want
to be in a relationship then this is the wrong person for you! Move on.
5. I am in love
“Can’t you drop the cues before?”
You know what? Say it aloud when you don’t like the person
instead of letting them have all the wrong cues. Few genuine people would be left
hurt. In case of the annoying others, you will have to still make use of all
these above excuses. Especially the, “I have a boyfriend” as he would respect
the other man more than your choice to choose the right one for you!
Good article with real practical stuff !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteThank you Kunal :)
DeleteHaha! A fun post, Arpita! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Aayesha! :)
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